REVISION AND PRACTICE
Week 4 — Quick Revision
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Start here All 18 leadership lessons on one page. Read it twice before the quiz.
Introduction
- Three parts, all starting with you.
- True leaders create more leaders, not followers; followers come automatically.
- Leading yourself builds empathy and makes you the example.
- Challenges: micromanaging · zero error syndrome (expecting perfection, so not delegating or interfering) · responsibility without authority/resources · unclear roles · balancing personal and professional life.
Part 1: Lead yourself from within (6 lessons)
| # | Lesson | Key points |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Uphold your core values | Non-negotiable; a guiding compass; do what is right, not what is easy. Col: honesty, adaptability, responsibility for his command (“I am responsible — fire 800”). Corruption isn’t only money — a teacher who doesn’t teach is corrupt. |
| 2 | Know your spheres of responsibility | Control (mind, body, potential, time, energy) → Influence (family, friends, peers) → Concern (other groups, economy, world events). Covey: focus on control and your impact grows. Be proactive: “I’m doing this — is it okay?” not “Tell me what to do”. |
| 3 | Exercise your power of choice | Space between stimulus and response (Covey). Choice to say yes/no, explore, seek help, build a support system. Choices bring responsibility. Dean’s “no” to a disciplined student — conduct over winning. |
| 4 | Take responsibility/ownership | Stop playing victim or blaming. Seek help = strength. Victim (react, compete, win–lose, blame) vs Owner (create, collaborate, win–win, calm, resourceful). Respons-ibility = choose your response. |
| 5 | Play to your full potential | Put in 100%; play to strengths; know weaknesses; strengths have downsides, weaknesses have upsides (extrovert may miss details; introvert listens well). |
| 6 | Invest in yourself | Self-growth, self-care, self-worth, self-love. The event is not the self — failing ≠ being a failure. |
Part 2: Lead yourself to lead others (9 lessons)
| # | Lesson | Key points |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | Cultivate a growth mindset | Overcome adversity; obstacles → opportunities. Kartic: “I can’t do digital games” → explored and partnered. |
| 2 | Manage time and energy | To-do lists; prioritise; make it easy to start (bike key in the file; stop mid-sentence); love what you do; energy drainers vs boosters; recharge (siesta, meditation, stroll). “I manage myself, not time.” |
| 3 | Focus on the one thing | Gary Keller: one thing that makes everything else easier. Write goals; goals support each other. Sivakumar’s one thing: joy. |
| 4 | Communicate effectively & listen actively | Words of power; body language; speak so others listen; listen actively; silence and pause; solitude. Hearing ≠ listening. Know your job, their job, and the shared goal. |
| 5 | Be emotionally resilient | Emotional intelligence; EQ valued over IQ. Identify triggers; regulate emotions; self-awareness via reflection, mentors, meditation, journaling. |
| 6 | Embrace change | Expect, monitor, adapt quickly, learn lessons. Student → corporate → entrepreneur. |
| 7 | Manage conflict | Inner conflict: values, expectations, perceptions, inner chatter. Say NO; clear agreements; reframe your lens; be your own inner coach. Creates psychological safety. |
| 8 | Delegate effectively | Pick team players who can lead themselves; mutual trust; align values; define roles; empower; psychological safety. |
| 9 | Be a collaborative leader | Open, non-judgmental; equal opportunity; divergent thinking before converging; listen–understand–act; tools and processes. Example: Sundar Pichai. |
Part 3: Lead others to lead themselves (Gung Ho! — Ken Blanchard)
| Animal | Lesson | Key points |
|---|---|---|
| Squirrel | Make work worthwhile and important | Vision and big picture; social value → intrinsic motivation; define 2–3 critical goals; non-negotiable values. Goals can be unmet; values cannot. |
| Beaver | Put individuals in charge of their goals | Playing field with clear territory (roles, rules); value members — listen, understand, act; use natural skills and stretch them. |
| Goose | Cheer each other on | Appreciation that is TRUE (timely, responsive, unconditional, enthusiastic); congratulations that are spontaneous, individual, specific, unique. E = mc². |
Lampshade: the higher you rise, the more you see — understand every job below you, but don’t interfere.
