REVISION AND PRACTICE

Week 9 — Quick Revision

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Fixed vs growth, zones, rejection, self-talk, failure, abundance and 4R.
Fixed vs growth, zones, rejection, self-talk, failure, abundance and 4R.
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Week 9 at a glance

Fixed vs growth (Carol Dweck)

Fixed Growth
Avoids challenges Embraces challenges
Gives up early Persists through setbacks
Effort is useless Effort is the path to mastery
Ignores criticism Learns from criticism
Threatened by others’ success Inspired by others’ success
  • Power words: group (not divide), offering (not load), appreciate (not envy).
  • Kartic: criticism is about the task, not the person. Prasanna: from “brain freeze” to the power of choice.

Zones and rejection

  • Four zones: comfort (safe, in control) → fear (no confidence, excuses) → learning (face challenges, new skills) → growth (purpose, new goals).
  • Juggling pencils: miss one, focus on the next. Don’t do everything at once.
  • Rejection: external (“no”) and internal (limiting beliefs, fear, self-talk). Turn resistance into persistence.
  • Ask why the answer was no (solar vehicle). Become part of an ecosystem (simulation-game partners). “The answer is yes” (army logistics).

End negative self-talk

  • Upside-down drawing (Betty Edwards): no judgment means less stress and more detail.
  • ABRA: Acknowledge (don’t fight; what you resist persists) → Breathe in what you want → Release what you don’t want → Align with who you want to be.
  • Process over result (Dhoni). Write the list (the 2005 conference opened by Kalam).

Failure and the Mouse Merchant

  • Failure = a stepping stone and a source of questions (research scholars, Edison).
  • Knowing what can go wrong = exception handling. Cake → pudding. Grade down from 100.
  • J. K. Rowling’s Harvard speech: failure strips away the inessential; imagination builds the future and empathy.
  • Mouse Merchant (Jataka tale): dead mouse → coin → jaggery and water → flowers → wood from a storm-hit garden → fortune. Make the most of what you have; spot hidden opportunities.
  • COVID: online work saved travel and reached the world.

Abundance mindset

  • Half full? With air and space, the glass is infinitely full.
  • Five habits: be open and curious; use words of power; gratitude journal (the opposite is entitlement); be resourceful (internal and external); give back / pay it forward.
  • Card game (UNO-style): reframe “I always lose”, “I’ll never have friends” (the word never), “I’m terrible at organising” (add yet).

The 4R framework

  1. Recharge mind and body (meditation, sleep, nature…).
  2. Resource your potential (personal capital).
  3. Review and Reframe your strategy (mindset, words, habits, resources).
  4. Refocus to take inspired action (tiny steps, tiny gains).

Practice questions

  1. “I’m threatened when my teammate gets praised.” Fixed or growth mindset?
Fixed mindset.
  1. In which zone do you lack confidence and make excuses?
The fear zone.
  1. What does the second A in ABRA stand for?
Align.
  1. Which famous speech is the “fringe benefits of failure” from?
J. K. Rowling’s 2008 Harvard commencement speech.
  1. What is the moral of the Mouse Merchant story?
Make the most of whatever you have; spot hidden opportunities and persist.
  1. Which R comes right after Recharge?
Resource your potential.
  1. Add one word to make “I can’t code” a growth statement.
“I can’t code yet.”
  1. Two types of rejection?
External (a “no”) and internal (limiting beliefs, fears, negative self-talk).
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